Embracing the Dichotomy of Control
If you’re going to make it in freelance, you need to separate what you can — and can’t — control.
“The chief task in life is simply this: to identify and separate matters so that I can say clearly to myself which are externals not under my control, and which have to do with the choices I actually control.” — Epictetus
Imagine this: It’s a sunny Friday afternoon, and you’re sipping your coffee, marveling at how smoothly your freelance project is going.
The muse has been generous, your design flows seamlessly, or the code practically writes itself — life is good.
Then, ding — an email notification pops up. Your heart sinks as you read through a mile-long list of revisions from your client, punctuated by phrases like “not what we were looking for” or “needs a complete overhaul.”
It’s easy to feel that the universe is conspiring against you in moments like these.
Even on good days, you may question your skills, your career choice — even your sanity.
But what if I told you there’s an age-old philosophy that can help you navigate through these challenging times and regain your peace of mind? (And what if it wasn’t a new-agey, crystal-laced concept?)
